Women of Thailand; the teacher
By Axel (from Prachuap)
As you’ll already know, the regular women of Thailand (those that don’t work in beer bars) do not usually speak that much English; so I figured that if I learned the Thai basics it would make it a lot easier to communicate with them and thereby give me a big advantage on the dating scene.
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I anticipated that the course would be really challenging and I didn't expect to overcome the main hurdle, the tones. The school was located in Phuket Town and most of the students were European and Australian. Some of them were expats and needed Thai language skills for their work, while the majority of my classmates daydreamed about talking to their Thai girlfriends in the local lingo.
It was the first day of school, and I sat in the classroom chatting with my new friends about their hopes and expectations, when this beautiful Thai woman entered the doorway. She smiled like in a Colgate commercial and put her palms together. She was Thai Chinese, had a fair complexion and long silky hair. She was in her late twenties and wore a white blouse and a tight black skirt. God the teacher was attractive!
My male classmates thoroughly enjoyed being around the exotic women of Thailand; you could tell by the look on their faces. Our new teacher introduced herself as Sam and asked for our names. Her manners were gentle and utmost feminine. When she looked in my eyes, through her black rectangular spectacles, I could tell that she was oozing with sex appeal. Her eyes were dark and yearning.
I thought to myself, "She's too hot, I won't be able to focus on my studies."
Women of Thailand; first lessons
Sam started out by teaching the sounds of Thai vowels and consonants. Each student had to read a long list of sounds and the teacher corrected us, in the most forgiving Thai fashion. It was quite difficult, yet it was even harder not to stare at our teacher.
During the break, all the guys grinned like young boys. One German student passed a comment that made everyone laugh, all he said was, "Great school!" We were all blinded by the teacher's beauty and charm.
After the break Sam continued with the tones. I could sense that all of us resisted the whole thing, it was simply too difficult. At one point, she wrote her mobile phone number on the whiteboard. In a soft voice, she said, "Call me if you have question, but don't ask for money!" Everyone laughed and eagerly jotted down her number. She even had a great sense of humour.
After school, I had lunch with two guys from the class. I'm sure you can guess what we talked about – the lovely women of Thailand.
That was my best day of school ever. Now, I just had to come up with a legitimate excuse for calling my Thai teacher...
had two classes a week, on Mondays and Wednesdays. The second class was
as good as the first one, and the teacher's professional outfit didn't
disappoint any of the guys. Sam continued to teach the tones. We kept
hearing her soft voice making the various tones, accompanied by the
gentle movements of her hand. Many women of Thailand gesture in the most
gentle manner, and our feminine teacher was no exception.
it was our turn to give it a try. Out of the blue, it clicked in my
head. It was the word for ‘shirt’ that triggered the breakthrough. For
the first time ever, I recognized the falling tone and could reproduce
it. Totally unexpected, what a thrill!
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That evening I called Sam to tell her about my progress. In all honesty, I was quite nervous about making the call. I had written down a couple of questions in my notebook, just in case. She was really happy to hear about the good news, and stressed that most students struggle with the sounds and tones. Her friendly personality and soft voice, made me relax, almost immediately.
We kept talking for quite some time, about her studies in Bangkok and her ambition to further her English skills. She asked me how long I had been in Thailand and what I liked about her country. Sam ended the call by saying, "See you next week." I felt great about having made the call.
When I saw her in school, she looked at me and smiled. I decided not to mention about the phone call to any of my classmates. During the lesson, a thought hit me, had anyone else called her, or even worse, had everyone called? I didn't know what to think.
The lessons still focused on the tones, but gradually the teacher started to teach basic conversation. The guys talked eagerly about Sam during the break and the big question was, if she was single.
Women of Thailand; getting to know Sam
A few weeks passed. I slowly got the hang of the other tones and felt great about my studies. It was still frustrating to learn Thai, but nothing like before. Early one evening, I received a text message from Sam. She casually wondered if I would like to join her at her friend's garden party, on Saturday.
My heart started to beat uncontrollably, I was bathing in bliss. Who wouldn't want to spend time with a goddess like her? I replied one or two hours later, I didn't want to come across as really desperate. I simply wrote, "Should I bring a bottle of wine or a box of chocolates?"
Sam replied immediately, "Up to you, meet me outside Central Festival 7pm. Casual dress : )"
I don't know how many hours it took me to fall asleep that night, I was totally blissed out. I can assure you, during the 2 days leading up to the party, I was not thinking about the tones. Sam was on my mind, day and night. This is what the women of Thailand do to you, you just can't stop thinking about them.
At ten to seven, I arrived at the main entrance of the Central Festival shopping mall, with 2 bottles of Merlot in a paper bag. It was dark outside, but the area was well lit up. A car pulled up and Sam rolled down the window. She sat in the front seat and her girlfriend was driving. Sam was wearing a sparkling black outfit that was as tight as they come. She smiled and kept eye contact with me, as she introduced me to her friend, Toy.
We drove for a good 20 minutes until we arrived at a small villa, right on the beach. The girls spoke English all along. They were both rather well-educated. Toy told Sam, "Naughty teacher date student!" We all burst out with laughter. I could tell it would be a great party.
In the garden, that overlooked the beach, I met more of Sam's friends. All up, there were about 10 of us. The couple that lived in the house were Thai and Australian. We had a delicious barbecue and then Tom, the Aussie, started to DJ. We danced and had quite a bit to drink.
Sometime after midnight, Sam asked if I would like to walk with her on the beach. She was quite confident for a Thai girl – most regular women of Thailand of much more shy. Sam gently took my hand in hers, and off we went with two full glasses of wine. It was wonderful to walk barefoot in the fine sand. Walking hand in hand under the star-lit sky, with the girl of my dreams, was truly romantic; even better, her soft kisses made it divine.
When I looked into her hungry eyes, I thought to myself, "It's unreal, how did this come to be?"
We had probably been away for well over an hour. By the time we got back to the house, most of the guests had already gone to sleep. Sam leaned her head on my shoulder and asked in her silky voice, "Stay in my room?"
The rest of the story, I'll keep to myself. I encourage you to learn some Thai, I surely don't regret it, and good luck with the women of Thailand..."