Thai Hooker Safety Report

Before delving into the whole Thai hooker safety thing, let me start by stating that it is my firm belief that if you observe a few simple guidelines as to how to behave in Thailand then you will be about as safe as anywhere in the world.

If, on the other hand, you ignore these guidelines then sooner or later you will run into someone that you'll wish you hadn't...

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In the majority of cases where trouble has erupted for a western visitor, it is because that visitor has unwittingly stirred up some resentment and anger for something that would have gone unpunished in his/her own country.

This is not always the case, sometimes innocent victims land themselves in trouble just as they do in any country, but in Thailand it is relatively easy to cause offense without intending it.

Your first instinct might be that cultural differences shouldn’t matter all that much, but just look at it for a moment from the Thai perspective. In my own country I don’t mind admitting that I get quite annoyed when foreign immigrants enter the country and ignore British culture.

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Lack of respect for the local culture is made worse when these foreigners refuse to speak English, when they don’t integrate into society, and when they actually try to replace British ways of doing things with their own ways.

Now, I can imagine that I might feel a whole lot worse about these people if they were also substantially wealthier than the British and if I had to endure watching them enjoy the company of slim, young British women... even if those women were hookers.

Behave yourself...

Being seen with some Thai girls is unlikely to raise anyone’s blood pressure, but it still makes sense to behave respectfully when in their company. Don’t go grabbing their curvy bits or planting kisses on them when in public; Thais hate this sort of thing.

Always pay her what’s owed when the time comes to part ways, and if you begin to suspect that a lady might have a jealous boyfriend lingering around in the background (and yes, despite what they might tell you, many Thai hookers do have Thai boyfriends), cut her loose and don’t see her again.

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You should also do your utmost to keep your bar-girl friends separated because they can get really jealous. Believe it or not, you can land yourself in an awkward situation if one of your regular ladies 'loses face' amongst her colleagues because you have been seen with another girl...

One more thing... don’t, under any circumstances, get yourself emotionally involved with a hooker. It’s an obvious thing to state, but if you’ve never been to Pattaya or somewhere similar then you can’t understand just how easy it is to fall into ‘Knight in shining armour’ mode.

I’ve written all about the dangers of romantic attachment in my Thai bar girls section. Simply observing these simple rules will probably keep you out of any danger, but there are some other risks to be aware of so I'll turn to those next.

Thai Hooker Dangers

Firstly, there are the sexually transmitted diseases (STDs); I’m not going to say much about these because we all know what they are, but what you might not know is that Thai hookers are extremely lax about the use of condoms.

Marquee Bar, Soi Buakhao, PattayaMarquee Bar, Soi Buakhao, Pattaya

You need to exercise a great deal of self-discipline here… it’s quite easy to take silly risks after a night out on the town, especially if there’s a significant amount of alcohol in your bloodstream.

There have been numerous reports about the dangers posed by Thai ladyboys; most frequently with regard to theft, but not only that, there are also a lot of violent altercations with foreigners who treat them in a disrespectful manner.

I don’t doubt that there is a problem with ladyboy pickpockets and bag-snatchers, but I suspect that most of the incidents of violence could easily have been avoided. They often stem from a tourist taking offense at being groped as they pass by a ladyboy bar.

This will happen from time to time by both girls and ladyboys as they try to tempt you into their bars. Whilst this might land someone in big trouble back in the west, you shouldn't get your knickers in a twist about it in Thailand. My opinion is that  anyone who can’t handle this sort of thing shouldn’t not be out in the Thai nightlife scene in the first place...

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Of course, there seems to be a growing movement amongst some westerners to be offended at every opportunity. That's your choice - let me know how that works out for you in Thailand!

I’ve previously mentioned the dangers posed by those girls and ladyboys who pose as freelance hookers, but it’s worth restating. The possibility of being drugged and robbed by a freelance Thai hooker is much higher because she will know that she cannot easily be found were you to register a complaint with the police.

Freelancers are not attached to any particular bar, so tracking them down after a crime has been committed is not easy. The local police aren't going to be able to do much if you don't know the offender or their whereabouts.

As I've written elsewhere, most of the danger in the naughty nightlife areas comes from other tourists and, if a fight breaks out, Thai hookers will usually do their best to break it up.

In Summary

If you are sensible you'll be very unlikely to have any trouble with a Thai hooker. Most of them lead a very non-confrontational sort of existence and will only turn nasty if severely provoked.

To be especially safe, just follow the advice given here and behave yourself. The key safety nets are to:

  • Avoid romantic attachment
  • Stay calm and polite at all times
  • Use condoms
  • Avoid freelance hookers
  • Always pay what’s owed
  • Keep your lady friends separated
  • Stay away from the girls with jealous boyfriends

I’ve never even heard of anyone getting into any trouble at all relating to a Thai hooker if they’ve followed these guidelines, let alone witnessed any trouble.

All in all, you’re much more likely to get into a road traffic accident than a bar-girl related incident... then again, that’s not much of a statement since the traffic in Thailand is verging on suicidal :)


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