What do Thai bar girls want?
Nearly all of these relationships are built on the worst possible foundations, where the western man was initially only interested in a brief holiday romance, and the lady was only interested in financial support.
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To be fair, these girls are not always seeking to lull foreigners into a
web of deceit about their, not entirely genuine, affection. A few
perfectly happy relationships have been formed between Westerners and
Thai bar girls but, in a way, that is part of the problem!
If you start to get emotionally attached your better judgement will get
pushed aside because you’ll know that, however rare they are, successes
do sometimes occur.
There really is no way of knowing when these sort of Thai girls are
being genuine and when they are not, unless you catch one red-handed in a
lie, and it’s a problem that has caused untold grief to many an
unsuspecting westerner. Dishonesty can sometimes take years of marriage
to uncover itself, by which time the trusting westerner can have his
entire life destroyed once he learns the truth.
There’s even an exclusive club in Thailand called the 'Pattaya flying club'. The flying club has nothing to do with aviation, but quite a lot to do with sky-diving off high-rise balconies to a quick, sharp, and sudden transition into the afterlife…
Such things really do happen and with alarming frequency once the truth comes out. The blame that can be apportioned to the women in these cases varies by a wide margin, but some have even been directly involved in disposing of their husbands!
Click here to read about a tragic Thai girl related suicide.
Some guys enjoying the morning after the night before...
In the vast majority of cases, long-term relationships with Thai bar
girls don't turn out well. Fortunes are lost, family and friends are
left behind, and when things turn out badly there is usually a good
slice of humiliation thrown into the mix.
These ladies are not all
the same in their methods, as I’ll explain later on, and some are not
interested in forming long-term relationships at all. Others are
primarily hoping to find a long-term wealthy benefactor or two.
It’s actually quite common for some girls to be involved with several
western benefactors at any one time, with each of them completely
unaware of the others, and each of them sending various amounts of
support money to their girl each month from their home countries… and
all this whilst their bar girl sweetheart is secretly supporting a Thai
boyfriend or husband!