A lesson learned...
Now, you might think that an admission of this sort is no admission at all since it was known to me that she worked in a bar and that this is what Thai bar girls do. Fair enough, but there aren’t that many bar girls who will openly talk about such things. Admittedly, the secrecy around this is fast becoming a thing of the past but at one time Thai bar girls kept this sort of thing concealed.
Anyway, months past until one day I got a call from her in the night. Her voice and character were completely off, I don't mean in a weird mood sort of way, I mean in a completely different personality sort of way.
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She’d called me accidentally and as soon as she realized her mistake she
hung-up. Apologies followed the next day but her game was up. It was
unmistakably a ‘different persona’ that she was using when she called me
I’d realized that the true character of the girl was a complete mystery
to me. Within minutes of our first meeting, she had been able to form an
instinctive idea of what sort of girls I like, and then simply assumed a
Other than the mistaken phone call there was never, even for a second, any hint of deception! Some Thai bar girls are actresses, and once they figure out what sort of character to present to you they’ll stick to it and never break character.
I don’t harbor any negative feelings toward the girl and I wish her well, I just regard the whole episode as another step forward on the learning curve that is Thailand.
Even when you think that you have a mutual understanding with a bar girl, and that there is no reason in the world for her to deceive you, you’ll never quite know for sure if the person you’re dealing with is completely on the level.
Western guys back home can’t fully appreciate any of this, and that’s why they are always completely dumbfounded when they hear about another lamb to the slaughter in the form of a western guy that has gotten himself romantically involved with a Thai bar girl, or seemingly regular girl who just happens to be half his age.
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For those of us who have spent time in the bars, we tend to be only too aware of how easily this can happen. Most of us have been burned by a bar girl at one time or another, and that’s despite the ferocity with which we might deny it!
The trick is to bail out the instant that you suspect something is amiss.