Sex Workers in Thailand
Regarding sex workers in Thailand, there has been a lot written, both on my own site and others on the net, about the hidden dangers posed by getting too attached to lady. That threat is real, and it shouldn’t be underestimated if you are overly prone to trusting in people’s good intentions and forming emotional attachments too soon, but I think that it is a threat that is diminishing.
More and more, the better looking girls are turning away from the traditional pathway to riches i.e. snagging a western boyfriend that will marry them and deposit all his cash into her purse. These days most westerners are much better informed than in the days of old, and so they are more wary. The Pattaya sex workers in the video shows that the sweet, shy and reserved persona is not one that is uniformly adopted!
Additionally, the ratio of girls to men has fallen somewhat in the bars which leaves the better looking girls with the option of scoring numerous ‘short-time’ liaisons with customers in a single night, and for a much higher fee, than was the case a few short years ago.
The upshot is that it has gotten harder for sex workers in Thailand to find a western boyfriend for anything long-term, and easier to make more money via the western model of prostitution. There are increasing numbers of reports coming from western tourists of Thai bar girls who refuse to leave their bars for anything more than an hour or two… that’s quite a departure from how things used to be!
How sex workers in Thailand are adapting their practises
These days, and with Bangkok sex workers especially, a lot of Thai sex workers begin their shifts in the early evening and carry on right through the night until daylight. No wonder there are so many reports about girls that just want to sleep all day! Bar girls don’t always stop and go home to rest just because their bars have closed, a fair proportion of them continue on to one of the discos once the beer bars and gogo bars close for the night.
Meeting the sexiest Thai ladies for fun times is getting easier and easier to do via the online dating sites. A lot of girls like the extra discretion that is offered on:
My recommended Thai dating site
Discos don’t get busy until quite late on, midnight at the earliest, and they are at their best in the early hours once all the better looking bar girls start arriving in larger numbers. At this point they will be working as freelance girls, so there’s no bar-fine to be paid if you depart together. You’ll find that lady-drink prices are still high though, the reason being that freelance hookers in Thailand often earn commissions on their drinks.
There’s two downsides to the discos if you are looking for company. Firstly, whilst there are guys of all ages in there, you do get a proportionally younger clientele which means that you’ll have to compete with relatively fitter, better looking guys if you want to get the best looking girls. Secondly, if you do end up with a girl that has been working in a bar all night, she probably won’t admit it and by the time sex workers in Thailand make it to a disco you can bet that many of them have already been entertained a few times that night!
As I’ve written elsewhere, if you are looking for a regular girl rather than a working girl, you’re much better off heading to a disco that caters for a Thai audience rather than a tourist audience.