Phuket Escorts without the hassle…
There is a LOT of fun to be had with these ladies. No serious commentator can deny this simple fact, and when they try to do so they actually mean that the ladies used to be even more fun in the past (by which they usually mean cheaper).
I do agree that costs have risen significantly for most western guys who want to indulge themselves in sexual services, but in terms of sheer fun… well the working-girls in Thailand aren’t going to surpassed by their sisters in the Western world anytime soon… that’s a fact!
Things may be changing in modern times, especially in Bangkok where the girls can make a lot of money via the Western model of prostitution (i.e. make a quick buck from one guy, then move quickly on to the next), but even there the experience is sheer Hedonism compared to the West.
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I do agree that service standards have deteriorated as the girls have generally moved more towards a quick dalliance rather than a snare-your-man approach, because there’s less need to provide a good service to someone who is less likely to be a repeat customer.
However, in Phuket you can still get the girlfriend-experience.
It would be a good idea to stop your little head from completely taking over your mind when partying, because a lot of the working-girls there will still string you along and try to snare you as a boyfriend, just as in the days of old.
I can't stress this strongly enough...
If you meet ladies in the bars/discos then you need to regard everything that you hear from them as being a little less than 100% accurate, or just completely untrue.
Lies will flow from their lips without restraint or hesitation and they'll look you in your eyes whilst they are telling them… and they won't flinch.
This, however, fails utterly to convey the extent to which these lies are frequently swallowed up by western men.
We are talking here about a time honored, truly sublime, lying expertise with which these ladies can seemingly effortlessly work their magic and turn an otherwise sensible middle-aged man into an adoring boyfriend or husband.
The reason is usually because these girls are often very attentive to their man’s needs in a way that is not common in the West.
Things like cleaning, and tidying up your mess, are typical. Folding away your clothes, drying you down with a towel after you step out the shower, making the bed… even putting toothpaste on your toothbrush for you is not unheard of.
If you ask her where she would like to go, she will normally reply softly in broken English “I go where you go”. It’s all very endearing and quite easy to fall for.
At the end of your vacation there may well be some real attachment between the two of you. You will have shared plenty of good times together and the thought of separating might not be a happy one.
In fact, leaving Thailand at all might seem like a terrible idea!
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When the departure date arrives, your girl will almost certainly want to accompany you to the airport, and I’ll bet that there will be tears in her eyes when you say your final farewell... this is not at all unusual for these ladies.
If you made the mistake of exchanging phone numbers, you can bet that your phone will soon be ringing after you get back home.
These are typical developments that lead to the sort of tragic relationships that I keep banging on about.
Some Westerners have even gone as far as establishing some sort of formal relationship with a Phuket escort before they even leave Thailand.
The arrangement usually works out that the girl will give up her work and return to her home village to await your return, whilst you will send an agreed amount of cash each month so that she doesn’t need to work.
If she works at a bar you may also be asked to pay a ‘separation’ fee to her bar if you want her to stop working there immediately. This fee is a con whereby the bar’s manager and the girl herself will each pocket a share of your money.
In reality the girl doesn’t stop working in the bar at all. Even worse, she may well already have similar arrangements with several other western men, none of whom are aware of each other.
Believe me, it happens all the time.
By way of example I’m reminded of a bar-girl that I used to know.
On the surface she was ultra-sweet and feminine, unassuming, quiet and reserved. This sort of character in a girl just so happens to be my preferred character in a lady when seeking out a potential bed-partner, and so the two of us got along in the way that western guys and Phuket escorts do.
Months passed by with regular meet-ups between us, nothing serious just regular casual 'friend with benefits' type stuff. I’d been completely honest with the girl in question and made clear that I was the butterfly sort of guy and that nothing long-term would ever become of our time together.
I also made clear that she would be taken care of financially.
She was happy with the arrangement and was fully aware that I would, as the mood took me, spend time with other ladies. She was unusually candid with me too and openly admitted that there would be other western gentlemen who would be entertaining her from time to time.
Anyway, months passed until one day I got a call from her in the night. Her voice and character were completely off, I don't mean in a weird mood sort of way, I mean in a completely different character sort of way.
She’d called me accidentally and as soon as she realized her mistake she hung-up. Apologies followed the next day but her game was up. It was unmistakably a ‘different persona’ that she was using when she called me by mistake.
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Her mistake did ruin our relationship.
I’d realized in the moment that the true character of the girl was a complete mystery to me. Within minutes of our first meeting, she had been able to form an instinctive idea of what sort of girls I like, and then simply assume a suitable persona...
Other than the mistaken phone call there was never, even for a second, any hint of deception! Some Phuket escorts are accomplished actresses, and once they figure out what sort of character to present to you they’ll stick to it and never break character.
We saw each other a couple of times after this but she knew she’d lost face, and when that happens Thais struggle to shrug it off.
Things fizzled out and I moved on.