Finding an Online Thai ladyboy experience...
I didn't rush into things here though, not like I had with Craigslist.
First, these seemed like an entirely different cross-section of the Thai
Ladyboy community. These girls had degrees, high paying jobs and, if
the pictures were anything to go on, much nicer condos than me. Many of
the girls who were turning up in my searches were beyond passable, they
were perfect visions of femininity and had a beauty that made me ache
with the knowledge of it.
Some were quite eloquent and at least claimed a
broad range of real interests, interests not too far afield of my own.
Ladyboys who read science fiction books and listened to jazz fusion,
were excited by intellectual discourse and knew the difference between
instant coffee and coffee, and who could walk away from any
beauty contest with the crown and bouquet were honestly frightening.
women who are that finely tuned are frightening, and the seeming
relative rarity of such a Thai ladyboy makes approaching someone even
scarier. At first I hunted like a beast of the savanna, finding those
girls who I was least intimidated by and expecting my pursuit of them to
be that much easier, like pouncing on the wounded calf.
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This turned out
to be a bad idea; while I was right in assuming I'd not have too much
trouble getting my foot in those doors, I hadn't planned for what I
would do to open the doors completely, or what exactly would be the
consequence of passing through them.
What I found was that, with
the typical Thai ladyboy that I was meeting on OKC, there was an
extended period of chatting through email and messenger before any
actual dating would occur.
This became a problem in those cases where I
had absolutely nothing in common with someone save sexual desire. It was
horrifying having to fake the dialogue and knowing exactly why I was
doing it and how far I was going to take it, and the sort of effect this
might have on the ladyboy I was stringing along like this. Some did cut
straight to the chase, but that made me suspicious.
I needed to
think critically about what I was doing, and why I was doing it. I
decided to narrow it down to those ladyboys who had a broad range of intellectual
interests and who the profile questions suggested were more interested
in sex than romance.
I did not do this because I was looking for quick
hook-ups, but because I assumed that those ladyboys might be more
inclined to move things along to an actual meeting if the first few
volleys of text communication went well. And since things can fall apart
completely within the first few minutes of the actual meeting phase of
things, I didn't want to invest huge amounts of time in the preliminary
I also made some consideration of their
employment, if they'd mentioned it. Being self-employed makes it
difficult for me to sync myself up with someone who lives with 9-5
expectations. I don't spend the little spare time I have watching
television, and I don't want to deal with a Thai ladyboy who expects a
massive amount of unproductive hanging around together every evening and
Bangkok, home of many a ladyboy experience...
Finally I'd narrowed the field down to 3 ladyboys, all
Thai, who I was chatting with and it was time to take the whole thing
beyond the hypothetical.
Again, it was harder to rush in than it had
been with Craigslist. The assumption that there was so much potential
for real relationships to develop made every move I made seem more
significant, much more so than with a casual hook-up, but I hadn't come
this far not to try to go all the way. I arranged a meeting with a Thai
ladyboy named Mina, who operated her own decorative plant shop, at a
place called The Brew Pub.