Kuala Lumpur Escorts & Nightlife

In this article about Kuala Lumpur escorts and nightlife attractions I’m going to tell you everything you need to know about having a good night out with some female companionship at the end.

You’ll learn all about the usual goings on in and around town, what to expect from the place, and how it has a different vibe to other parts of Southeast Asia.

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By way of a quick background report, you should be aware that the local people are a mixture of Malays, Chinese and Indians. Most of them socialize amongst themselves and don’t mix with people of different races.

There’s also a thriving expat community, with westerners most often being middle-aged professionals.

Malaysia portrays an image of being a deeply Islamic country and has good ties with the Middle East. Religion is serious business and a lot of Arabs come here for a holiday.

This directly influences the Kuala Lumpur nightlife scene. Drinking and partying isn’t as acceptable as in other places in Asia.

From experience, it can be tricky to meet and hang out with locals unless you know people. It’s easier to find and meet Westerners. Young American, European and Australian backpackers who like to drink and have a good time flood the city.

Kuala Lumpur Escorts

You’ll find that Kuala Lumpur escorts tend not to Malaysian. It is much more common for these girls to originate from neighboring countries in the region, typically Thailand and Vietnam.

However, if you are only interested in local hookers, there are is a small number of them to be found working in some Kuala Lumpur nightlife locations.

Typically these local Malaysian working-girls tend to be either Chinese Malaysians or Indian Malaysians; I’d imagine that there would be little tolerance for ethnic Malay girls to work in this profession due to their Islamic faith.

With Malaysia being a predominantly Muslim country you’ll perhaps be a little surprised to read that the presence of Kuala Lumpur call girls and street hookers from any ethnic/religious, be they Muslim or not, would be tolerated at all.

There are some very sweet girls to be found in Malaysia and it is easy to find them online. Gold-diggers are a rarity and you can expect to have lots of fun on:

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Never the less, there is a range of ladies who are available to entertain you, and it is is a reasonably extensive range in the capital city.

If you venture into Malaysia for a visit, you might hear some of the local people referring to you as ‘Mat Salleh’; this is the standard term for Caucasians in Malaysia just as ‘Farang’ applies in Thailand.

I’m not sure if Mat Salleh make up the majority of the customer base for Kuala Lumpur escorts, but there are lots of western businessmen in the city who are no strangers to the Malaysian escort industry.

Call Girl Popularity

I think that part of the reason for the relative popularity of Kuala Lumpur escorts is due to the more restrained bar scene there. The capital city is not like other cities in the region and obvious red light districts with the sort of bars and clubs you get in Bangkok are not to be found.

There are lots of Malaysian hookers to be found in the watering holes around town, but they operate much more in the shadows and won't solicit themselves in an obvious way. If you are new in town then you’ll almost certainly miss them altogether.

This is actually a bar when the pool closes... the Luna bar in KL

You’re more likely to run into Malaysian hookers on the streets than in the bars, and those hookers that you do see in bars will probably be freelance hookers. The reason is because local drinking establishments don’t employ bar girls in the way that Thai bars do.

Prostitution is illegal and, unlike Thailand, bars that promote it are more likely to land themselves in trouble.

Kuala Lumpur Escorts; Prices

At current exchange rates the starting prices of a brief encounter with a call girl in Kuala Lumpur work out to a similar fee to what you might pay in Thailand. The main difference, in terms of costs, is that the fees rise in a big way as the duration of a liaison lengthens.

This is much more consistent with a western style price structure, and anyone who is intending to enjoy a sort of holiday girlfriend relationship with one of these ladies had better have very deep pockets indeed.

Table of Malaysia escort prices

Malaysia escort prices
kuala lumpur escort prices

Local prices are shown in the table above and, somewhat surprisingly, the costs are lower in Kuala Lumpur than they are in Penang. I think that the reason for this might be that, at the time of writing, there are a lot more agencies and girls on offer in Kuala Lumpur compared to the other areas and that the extra competition in the market is driving prices down.

Be aware though that these are the lowest rates I could find and that some escorts ask for US$100 per hour even in the capital. Even so, these rates are not entirely disproportionate with modern escort prices around the region.

Borneo in particular seems to have fewer options than other places, and I couldn’t find any online options at all in Kerching, Georgetown.

The nightlife there is regarded as being amongst the best in North Borneo so, if there is a lack of escort girls working there then I doubt that you’ll find much on offer in the more remote locations.

No doubt you’ll have the usual freelancer options there though, and I’d estimate that the going rate for those ladies is in the region of 300 to 400 ringgit for an overnight experience.

All the standard services offered by Asian call girls are available from Kuala Lumpur escorts, depending on the girl... and the usual safety factor is as high as it is elsewhere. When using the services of someone who can be tracked down in the event of any nonsense occurring, as you will if you book via an agency, you are unlikely to have any trouble at all.

Similarly, with freelance Malaysian hookers, all the usual extra risks apply since they can easily disappear without trace, so keep a close eye on your possessions or, preferably, lock them away somewhere safe when you are entertaining one of these ladies.

Okay, since not every guy will be looking for paid pleasures, I thought a story from one of my readers might shed some light on the regular dating opportunities in the city. As you'll read later, picking up regular girls in bars isn't as easy as in some SEA bars, so getting friends to introduce you to someone, or playing the online dating game, are easier options.

Kuala Lumpur Girls; first encounter

By Axel (from Prachuap)

If you haven't dated any Kuala Lumpur girls then you're missing out. Malaysian ladies are some of the sexiest in Asia and if you have a trip planned you're in for a treat! There are three main ethnic groups in Malaysia. The largest one is made up of Malays, followed by Chinese and then Tamils (Southern Indians).

I don't want to disappoint you if it’s ethnic variety that you want, but the only Malaysian women that repeatedly interact with foreigners are from the Chinese camp. Think jet-black hair, a light complexion and excellent business skills, and you're pretty close to the real thing.

Taman Negara National Park, MalaysiaTaman Negara National Park, Malaysia

Let me share my first encounter with some beautiful Kuala Lumpur girls...

Kuala Lumpur girls, here I come

It was my first trip ever to Malaysia. I had become friends with a Malaysian Chinese guy in Phuket, Thailand. His name was James and to my surprise he was Christian. Anyway, he kept inviting me to visit him. He had a big personality and was good fun to be around and; as it were, he was due to take a week off from his work at Intel and he wanted to show me around Kuala Lumpur.

In an email he wrote: “I want to set you up with a nice woman while you're here. Either we'll throw a party and invite some top Kuala Lumpur girls, or I'll arrange a few blind dates for you, in one day. What will it be?” I just couldn't get enough of this guy. I was smiling from ear to ear, when I sent off the three-word reply, "Party, party, party!"

Fast forward; James picked me up at Kuala Lumpur International Airport and after a quick, "Welcome to KL," he didn't waste a single moment. He went on to talk about the 3 women, in great detail, who had been invited to tonight's party at his place. "They're all dying to have a Western boyfriend. All three of them have university degrees and long legs!"

James told me that his girlfriend had spent hours figuring out which friends to invite. He had reminded her over and over again, "They have to be spontaneous and playful!" James was such a great guy.

Once at his condo, it was high time to jump in the shower and to slip into some stylish clothes. I was going to wear my favourite slacks and my new, short-sleeved Armani shirt. The Lumpur girls were on their way...

Sue and James's girlfriend arrived first. I thought to myself, "These women look fantastic in their fancy outfits, silky black hair and their long legs." They even shook hands, I loved it. I already felt like the happiest man on earth, and there were two more to come.

We had only been sitting down for a few minutes, mostly talking about Europe, when 2 more bomb shells entered through the doorway. It was Eva, who had shortish hair and wore a really tight red skirt and Li Xia, in a classy white dress. When I tried to say her name everyone laughed, while Li Xia looked me firmly in the eyes from behind her sexy black spectacle frames.

Li Xia, what a sexy name. I asked her what it meant. She told me it meant red clouds. Her voice was articulate and she had a ton of confidence.., I loved everything about her.

She was about 165cm tall and had long slender legs. Her hair was shiny and perfectly straight, and just reached slightly below her shoulders. Her red lipstick stood in stark contrast to her fair complexion. Her face was really beautiful, but the real magnet was her personality and sex appeal.

Sue and Eva, the other two Kuala Lumpur girls, kept straight faces throughout the evening and engaged enthusiastically in the conversation. That's what I like about the Malaysian Chinese, they're emotionally mature. And kudos to everyone for speaking English from beginning to end.

What are Kuala Lumpur girls really like?

Li Xia asked a lot of questions. She was really to the point, unlike Thai women. She checked if I was single, what kind of girls I fancied, how long I planned to stay in Southeast Asia, what type of work I did, and finally the most personal question of them all, what I thought of her...

What do you tell a stunning young woman that you've known for less than an hour? I played it cool and said, "I wonder if you're a good kisser." There is no need to tell you what happened next, but I ended up with lipstick in more than one place.

A few hours had passed and Sue and Eva had said their goodbyes. It's not easy to keep track of time when your senses are fueled by a sexy woman who is ready to play.

What happened that night and for the remainder of my stay was the stuff of legend, and if other Kuala Lumpur girls are anything like Li Xia, Sue and Eva then I predict that western tourists will soon be making Malaysia a must-visit destination.

About a month later Li Xia and I went camping in Taman Negara National Park. It boasts one of the oldest rain forests in the world but to be quite honest with you, all I remember from the trip, is Li Xia. Kuala Lumpur girls are way up there on my list of top feminine companions, I'm happy that I didn't miss out!

Experiencing Kuala Lumpur Nightlife

The Kuala Lumpur nightlife isn’t really about drinking, not in the eyes of the locals at any rate. For them it’s more about eating delicious street food and hanging out with friends.

Malaysians like to sit in restaurants and drink soft drinks or coffee whilst chatting. Alor Road is the best place for this, but not all foreigners like this scene. I have to admit that I’m one of them, I like to enjoy a beer or two and found this city a difficult place to get one.

Kuala LumpurKuala Lumpur is one of the most developed cities in SEA.

In Thailand almost every restaurant sells beer; the same is true for Cambodia and Vietnam but not in Malaysia. Indian and Malay restaurants never sell beer, Chinese ones often do, but not so much in the city center. Food courts are another place to have a drink, but the ones in Bukit Bintang and Kuala Lumpur city center are more restrictive.

Drinking in pubs and bars is expensive by SEA standards and you should expect to pay around the same as you would back at home in the west. I have friends who bring bags and bags of vodka and whisky back from the airport when they arrive because it’s cheaper.

You can buy cheap liquor in some shops, but the quality is low and it may not be safe to drink.

The best place to be at night is around Bukit Bintang. Locals and tourists like to hang around here, so let’s have a look at this part of the Kuala Lumpur nightlife first.

Bukit Bintang is full of hotels, restaurants, and vendors selling street food. During daylight, people flock to the malls and at night it transforms into a busy and bustling area with locals and tourists coming to eat and hang out. Restaurants have cheap food and different cuisines.

Drinking beer is difficult, remember that Malaysia is a Muslim country and drinking isn’t as open, but you can find bars and pubs near the shopping malls in Bukit Bintang. Alcohol can be very expensive here compared to local standards, so don’t expect the Kuala Lumpur nightlife to be as wild as other parts of Asia.

If you do decide to hang around Bukit Bintang, you’ll probably see a lot of beggars. Some are disabled and others send their kids to do their dirty work. Foreigners find this a little bit disturbing. I was sat in Alor Road and had a problem with some of these kids.

The Westerners on the next table gave them some money before leaving the restaurant, so the kids assumed that I would do the same. They kept standing next to me for 10 minutes begging for money… it was an uncomfortable experience. The waiter had to send them away in the end. Giving money to street beggars in SEA is not often a good thing as it often ends up in the hands of unsavoury characters, so my advice on this is to ignore beggars.

You can buy cans of beer from most convenience stores and, as you might expect, they are much cheaper than in the pubs. I used to buy a few cans with my friends and drink them in the park near KLCC – about a 30-minute walk from Bukit Bintang.

Although it’s frowned upon, it’s not too much of a problem if you’re quiet and discrete. My friends and I often did this for pre-drinks before heading out to some of the more expensive places.

Changkat Road in Bukit Bintang has the best party scene in Kuala Lumpur. This is a stretch of road lined with pubs, nightclubs, and cocktail bars. Most start to get busy at around 10pm and stay open until way after midnight. Some have live bands and international DJ’s.

Bukit BintangChangkat, Bukit Bintang in Kuala Lumpur.

This is probably one of the most popular places to enjoy the Kuala Lumpur nightlife, but the service standards tends to be poor and the drinks aren’t cheap. You can find good deals during Happy Hour, but that’s before 10pm.

Meeting Girls in Kuala Lumpur

Another thing that might disappoint some travellers is the fact that the Kuala Lumpur nightlife scene isn’t really the best place to find and pick-up girls. There’s generally more men around than women…

Meeting regular Malaysian women inside the clubs is difficult because groups don’t mix well with strangers in a bar or club. If you do manage to strike up a conversation, it’s unlikely that it’s going to end with you bringing her back to your hotel. Realistically, you’re not going to meet anyone that’s up for a casual encounter. When I lived here I went out most weekends, and it was almost impossible to penetrate the groups of girls in the bars. They just didn’t appreciate the interruption and interest from me.

Compared to Kota Kinabalu or Kuching, where the girls are much more laid back and open, you might find the Kuala Lumpur nightlife a bit of a disappointment. In fact, it was quite a shock at first after all the attention I had in Thailand and Vietnam.

Prostitutes work inside some of the clubs and they can be a little forthcoming. African prostitutes in particular can be very direct and pushy. I was constantly harassed by one and she didn’t seem to care at all that I was with my girlfriend! She wouldn’t take no for an answer and kept following me around.

The red light areas are in Bukit Bintang and Chow Kit.

In the former, girls walk freely along the street whilst in Chow Kit you’ll find ladyboys. Expect to see Chinese, Vietnamese, Thai, and African prostitutes. Some tend to hang outside of hotels trying to find the wealthier Westerners. You can also find massage parlours around that double up as brothels.

So, as you’ve read, the nightlife isn’t very active or wild compared to other parts of Southeast Asia, but there are some Kuala Lumpur escort girls to entertain you.

Locals like to enjoy street food and a chat over coffee. Pubs and bars on Changkat Road offer a wider selection of venues, but the prices outside of Happy Hour can be high. Last but not least, the nightlife venues aren't the best place to pick up regular Kuala Lumpur girls.


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