We’d barely been at the new venue twenty minutes when I received a message. Phuong had a few things to do, but wanted to meet me. As we continued to trade messages I gradually became aware that I was sitting on my own. I’d been on my phone so long that Gary had wandered off to go and make new friends.
Then, finally, I received the message I’d been waiting for. She gave me directions to her place and told me to come and pick her up. I let Gary know I was leaving early, and set off.
Phuong didn’t want to go drinking so, with few other options at that hour, the decision was made to go and hang out at my place instead. Yes, hang out. Just hang out. She made it clear that sex was off the table at this stage. I was a little unprepared then, when after only an hour spent hanging out, sex was suddenly placed back on the table. That said, I couldn’t find any reason to object.
I was soon lost in her warm embrace. I explored her smooth skin. Her soft lips. Her perky little breasts. Her penis. Wait. Suddenly the nagging thought at the back of my head came into focus. I don’t like penis. I began to notice a few other tiny details. Her body was soft and feminine, but there was something about the shape of the figure beneath me, the tone of the muscle, that just wasn’t quite womanly. It dawned on me then how daft this all was.
I had been paying attention only to Phuong’s femininity, but there was more to her than that. She wasn’t a girl after all, she was a ladyboy. If I was to date her I would have had to be able to appreciate everything about her, not just her girlishness. I expect she noticed something of my overdue epiphany as we awkwardly made love. Our few conversations after that were brief, and they soon ceased altogether.
I’ve got no regrets about my Hanoi ladyboy experience, but I have to conclude that it was ultimately somewhat pointless. I learned something about myself that I already knew. A little advice then. If your interest in ladyboys extends no further than a bit of mild curiosity, then, like me, you’re probably better off sticking to dating girls. If, however, you’re genuinely captivated by them, and are visiting Vietnam, then a Hanoi ladyboy could be just the girl for you.
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