Bali Escort Girls & Fun Times

For discreet commercial sex options, Bali escorts are available but you should be aware of one thing right away – the prices that these girls ask for their services are very high and not what you would expect from SEA.

I think that there are some unreal expectations, and you should note that there is huge variance in asking prices from one girl to the next.

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I’ve seen prices quoted at US$1,200 for a 24-hour sex companion, and it was by no means a one-off. Also, some of the ladies whose pictures I saw at the lower end of the price spectrum were, with the greatest of respect, not the most physically attractive ladies that I’ve seen working in the oldest of professions!

Despite preconceptions of the island, Bali sex tourism might not be the best option in Asia for the budget traveler, and this is certainly true of the call-girl service options that I’ve seen advertised.

I suspect that some of these ladies have been spending a little too much time online reading about those one-in-a-million P4P escapades whereby a virgin has advertised her virtue for sale and some guy with money to burn has made a ridiculous offer.

I seriously doubt that Bali escort girls get any customers at all when they quote these insane amounts, and only after a prolonged period of getting nowhere do they start to lower their asking prices.

Happily for most guys, there are some other options for P4P action if you steer clear of the call-girls, and you might even be interested in a serious relationship in which case the regular local ladies have something to offer.

Some info about regular Bali girls

Bali girls tend to adhere to the Hindu faith rather than the dominant faith in the rest of Indonesia i.e. Islam. That doesn’t change everything with respect to dating them, there are still lots of cultural aspects that remain the same, but it does change some things.

One difference is that finding romance with a Hindu girl will likely be a little easier to do because they tend to be more open to the idea of dating a western man.

Additionally, there’s no automatic requirement to adopt her religion or her customs if you were to marry her, and there’s no dowry that needs to be paid to her parents!

The local girls on the country's main party island have lost none of their traditional charm either; they remain ultra-sweet and feminine and quite receptive to western men with sex on their minds. Bali girls have got a reputation for being working-girls but it is a bit unfair, especially compared to most of the other working-girls in the region.

Bali barsThere are some upmarket bars on Bali.

There are significant numbers of girls who do work as prostitutes, and they tend to be Indonesian too, rather than being the usual imports from Thailand, Vietnam and the Philippines, but the majority of girls are just regular women.

That’s not to say that Bali girls won’t be delighted to accept some financial assistance from you the morning after a romantic get-together!

The shame/disgust that western ladies might feel if offered a cash hand-out the morning after a night of passion is purely a western thing, and it doesn’t apply to any Asian country that I’m aware of.

Any girl that comes from a poor background will gratefully accept financial assistance from a man, but that doesn’t automatically make her a prostitute.

I’ve written on my main page about Indonesian women that this part of Southeast Asia is more of a mystery to most western men, but that might not be the case for Australian men. Bali is a very popular holiday destination for Australians and not just for men, there are lots of Australian girls partying in the bars and clubs too.

Kuta Girls of Bali, Indonesia

By Archibald (from Bali)

Kuta girls can be a bit of a hazard if you’ve no experience of SEA girls. Not long ago I bumped into an old acquaintance there walking along Poppies Lane 2 and decided to join him at a sleezy restaurant on the main drag, Jl Legian Street.

My friend Neil – now over 60 – has been coming over to Bali now and then for the past two decades. It is one of his favourite stops after Thailand on his month long holidays from North America. He says that in a few more years he will get his Social Security pension and plans to retire in Southeast Asia.

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Sitting in the restaurant we wait for our ‘nasi goreng’ (fried rice) and drinks to arrive. I ask him if he has met any interesting Kuta girls. “Well, yes”, says Neil. ”There are lots of cute young chicks here for the taking.” “I know that.”  I replied. “But have you had any memorable relationships that peaked or fizzled?” I knew that Neil was interested in a long-term relationship with a SEA girl, maybe even an Indonesian lady right here in Kuta.

“Yes, Andy (my name), I will tell you about ‘Santi’ who I was fond of for a year or more. We met one night over at the bar at… a place along this very street a few buildings below the Circle K convenience store. Always 4 or 5 girls sitting at the bar at most any hour ready to chat with a foreigner. I struck up idle chat with Santi who worked in the fabric trade in nearby Denpasar.

She was of medium height, shapely and had a nice face. She was from Surabaya, a large city on the east end of Java close to Bali. In fact, many of the Kuta girls come over to Bali from Java because of the many tourists and higher wages. After a drink she accepted an invitation to come over to my room.

She was quite sober, more so than me. She walked along close by my side, sometimes holding hands, for the 4 blocks to my not so classy hotel. A wink from security and we climbed the stairs to my second floor room. I could have stood on the balcony, taking in the smell of foliage and looking at the stars above, but my mind was on seeing Santi naked and in my bed! I remember that she made a phone call on her cell, maybe she was telling her contact where she was in case she went missing, I thought. We engaged in jiggy jig as intercourse is called in Bali.  Maybe in an hour and a half I took her back to the bar where we had met. To stay the full night, Kuta girls usually ask for a double price.

Neil continued that he went up to Ubud for a short trip to see the cultural events. “I like the beautiful presentation of the Ramayana epic which is available most nights. Watching the men in their chanting in the Kecak dance is fascinating. Just wandering about to see the native paintings and sculpture is relaxing. Of course, a nice full body massage does one wonders. I can just smell the fragrance of the oils as the young lady runs her hands over my body, my thighs and my buttocks…”

"Anyway, I’d enjoyed my time with the Kuta girls and I was back a few days later. This time my guest house was only two blocks from the main road. It was an easy walk over to the main street and the bar near the Circle K. I walked by at noon but there were only a couple of younger girls sitting at the bar. I guessed that Santi was working and decided to check again in the evening. When I came back she was there and greeted me pleasantly like an old friend. She needed some food so we took a table to order. Soon a friend of hers joined us to share in the food (that I would pay for). A bit later Santi and I went back to my new room for some jiggy-jig.” 

“She suggested that we go shopping tomorrow morning as she had part of the day off from work. I agreed realizing that it might not be cheap but saw it as popular with Kuta girls. Around 10am I met her at the bar and we walked over to Matihari, a major department store in Kuta, near Kuta Square.  Wandering around the various levels with my gal it was interesting to see what appealed to her."

Bali sunsetWatching the sunset with a few drinks...

"At one point she said a TV would be good to have for her and her son (Yes, she had a 17 year old son). I declined to buy her one so her interest turned to clothes. She saw a dress that would be very nice for a sister that was visiting. Later we departed Matihari with a bag of basic groceries, perfume and some clothes. Well, I still was not broke but some women can try and pick at your money. I have heard that foreigners are viewed as walking ATMs by many Asian women, and some Kuta girls can be like that.”

“It was time to leave Bali for North America. I had her address and email and promised to keep in touch. Over that summer and fall I had quite a few emails all mentioning how much I was missed and general comments about sex and love. I even sent some money by money order (which was not too useful as the bank fees are huge)."

Kuta girls, a not so happy ending!

“In the fall I was on a trip to India with plans for a stopover in Bali on my return after Christmas. The emails kept coming. I was excited to think of Kuta and getting ‘home’ to Bali. Around December 27th I arrived at Ngurah Rai International Airport and went to a small guesthouse on a side alley in Kuta. I had Santi’s cell number so a rendezvous could be set up. I could hardly wait to embrace her again.”

“No dear. Not tonight. Tomorrow, I will come over.”

“I was patient and in the morning she took me on her motorbike to see the two basic rooms that she rented in a poor area of town. She mentioned that her son had been in the hospital and that there was a 500 dollar bill outstanding. I did not open my wallet to pay. Santi returned me to my new abode but was not able to stay, which I found disappointing. Oh well, New Year’s Eve would be the time to get together again.”

“While I called her a few times to meet up, she usually had excuses but one afternoon she arrived at my door with a large lady and two children in tow. Her friend, Muni offered me a massage. She whispered in my ear that Santi has a boyfriend and that she is lying about the hospital bill for her son! I was not too surprised because of her many suspicious excuses over the past few days, something that is typical of deceptive Kuta girls. The emails were rather generic ones sent by one of her friends.”

“So this was the end of my ‘relationship’ with Santi. In the morning I left Kuta behind and boarded a Perama tourist bus for the north of Bali. In Lovina I would lick my wounds and begin a life of meditation in a nearby Buddhist center.”

“Well, that is a common tale Neil.“ I said. “But why are you here again, you’re not checking out the Kuta girls again are you?”

Bali Nightlife Locations

A big part of the one-night-stand scene for some guys/gals occurs between westerners rather than between western men and local Bali girls, so there are a few options here that you don’t often find in other nightlife focused areas of Asia because there are significant number of single western girls that holiday here.

One thing to note about the nightlife in Bali is that it doesn’t get going until late on. If you go out drinking at 8pm you won’t see too many other people around as it doesn’t really get busy until after midnight.

Young revelers partying in Bali

Kuta is the busiest area for bars and clubs, as well as P4P options with freelance working-girls. All night moon-parties on the beach are also quite frequent events and the area in general appeals to the younger visitors and backpackers looking for the cheapest prices.

Bali does have other options for a bit more refinery and, if you prefer that sort of thing, Seminyak is the place to be. Actually, there are many different and noteworthy locations on Bali that offer very different sorts of experiences. But, for nightlife and girls, the best options are:

  • Kuta beach – the biggest and liveliest nightlife orientated part of the island. You’ll meet Bali girls here who are happy to entertain you in the way that horny young girls like to entertain!
  • Seminyak – my personal favourite due to its more refined bar scene. Seminyak is not far from Kuta, so pitching your tent here allows you to enjoy the madness of Kuta when you get an itch.
  • Legian Beach – another good choice largely due to its location i.e. right in between Kuta and Seminyak, making all parts of the best nightlife in Bali readily accessible.

Prostitution on Bali

Prostitution is illegal in Indonesia, just as it is with most Southeast Asian countries, and it is largely ignored, just as it is with most Southeast Asian countries. Kuta, Seminyak, and Legian Beach all have women hanging around who are available for commercial sex.

You’ll notice that massage shops are popular and dotted around the island but, unlike Pattaya and similar Thailand tourist hot-spots, the majority of Bali massage girls will not offer the extra services that Thai girls are famous for.

That’s not to say that such things don’t exist, they do, but you’ll probably need a taxi driver to take you to one of the backstreet happy-ending parlors.

The cheapest P4P option is to focus on freelance working-girls. Any local lady in a tourist venue that is dressed up is going to be very approachable, so I’d go for that option first if you are on a budget. You’ll have to do some haggling over price though, otherwise you’ll end up over-paying (whilst I’m on that subject, get used to haggling over prices for most things, it’s the Bali way).

If you take up with a freelance working-girl, it’s a good idea to avoid drinking too much or you might risk waking up the next day with all your valuables missing.

I’d recommend that you stick to short-term relationships if it’s a freelance Bali girl that you are entertaining i.e. avoid letting her sleepover so as to protect your belongings.

Bali Bar Girls

When it comes to bar girls in Bali the news is even worse – there are none! Not in the sense that there are bar girls in Thailand, Cambodia and the Philippines, with ladies directly employed by the bars, but some freelance hookers do drink in the bars.

Bali nightlifeBali isn't all about mega-clubs and youngsters, there's refinery too!

The only value for money P4P option in Bali, and other Indonesian destinations, comes in the form of Freelance girls. In Jakarta there are no shortage of girls that will approach western men and offer them their telephone numbers, and many of these girls are not even working-girls.

Western men are hotly sought out by regular Indonesian women, and any man who has kept reasonably good care of his body will not be short of romantic offers from the local ladies, but this is mostly a Jakarta thing than a Bali thing.

In Jakarta you’ll even find some ladies stuffing their telephone numbers in your pocket when you are out with another lady.

I make these points because Bali escorts here are so expensive and so unnecessary in most circumstances. If money is of no concern, and you absolutely must have the utmost discretion, then there is some sense in utilizing the services of an escort, but other than that I don’t see the point.

Bali escorts (agency call-girls) are the cheapest I've found in Indonesia, probably because of the extra competition on the island from freelance hookers. To put this in context, even Bandung escorts have asking prices that are sky high, and Bandung is located in Java, the poorest region of Indonesia.

Final thoughts about Bali Escorts

Bali is a fun place to be but it is best enjoyed by the younger 20-30 age group that travel in groups. There are a lot of P4P options, just as there are in most party zones in Southeast Asia, but the island has a backpacker feel to it.

All of the usual services are available if you do choose to spend your hard-earned cash on Bali call girls, and all the usual risks are present if you opt for the cheaper freelance working girls (i.e. getting robbed by someone who can disappear without trace).

It’s not just for guys...

There is a fairly well developed scene for foreign ladies to meet up with Balinese men for some naughty fun, but for the ladies reading this please be aware that the same dangers apply as when a gentlemen gets a little too attached to his Asian working-girl partner i.e. it’s fantasy land and romantic attachment will likely lead to heartbreak, humiliation, and financial ruin.

That said, I see no reason why foreign ladies shouldn’t be allowed to enjoy their dalliances with Balinese men so long as they can keep their bullshit antennae intact. Requests for funds will surely follow at some point if a relationship is allowed to go too far so, ladies, keep that in mind.

Bali Prices

On my main page about Indonesian women I did state that living costs in Bali are very cheap; that’s true but I was literally referring to ‘living’ costs. The nightlife and tourist stuff is, unfortunately, not so cheap.

The usual problem with alcohol prices is ever present in a Muslim country (even though Bali is predominantly Hindu), but they are particularly high in the tourist parts of the island.

While it is possible to find places where you can drink local ‘Bintang’ beer for well below $2, the prices for imported beers in the mega-clubs and trendy bars are much higher, with cocktails at $10 or more, and it is inside these venues that you are more likely to meet Bali girls for romantic P4P adventures... so keep an eye on costs.

Older travelers might use Bali escorts and other P4P options, but I think that this is more of a place to dance the night away and try to score with other travelers rather than go mongering for local prostitutes.

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